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The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.

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An unraveling disguised as a shirt. A truth disguised as a paradox.

“The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.”

 

Who are you beneath the roles?

The achievements, the armor, the story you’ve been rehearsing?

 

This shirt doesn’t define you—it invites you to un-define yourself.

To step out of the illusion and into the quiet space behind it.

The place where the real you isn’t built—it’s remembered.

 

It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t label.

It just sits gently on your back, asking the question behind all questions:

What if who you are can only emerge once who you think you are steps aside?

 

Crafted from breathable Heather-blended fabric, this unisex tee wears like a second skin. With its retail fit, side-seam construction, and shape-retaining ribbed collar, it moves with you—through identity shifts, inner stillness, and every stage of unbecoming.

Made by Bella+Canvas with ethical, sweatshop-free labor and sustainable practices, this tee honors both your skin and your soul. Platinum WRAP certified and consciously produced—because what touches the body should align with what frees the mind.

 

Because becoming isn’t always about adding more.

Sometimes, it’s about letting go.

 

Why It Matters (and Why You’ll Love It):

• Made from breathable Heather blends for soft, all-day comfort

  – Ash & Heather Prism: 99% cotton, 1% polyester

  – Heather & Solid Blends: 52% cotton, 48% polyester

  – Athletic Heather & Black Heather: 90% cotton, 10% polyester

 

• Lightweight fabric (4.2 oz) for year-round layering or solo wear

• Side seams and shoulder tape provide structure and durability

• Ribbed knit collar retains shape wear after wear

• Tear-away label = irritation-free comfort

• Advanced printing for vivid, long-lasting designs

• Made by Bella+Canvas: ethical, sustainable, and sweatshop-free

• Easy to dress up or down—perfect for accessorizing with your own style

 

Care Instructions:

 

• Machine wash cold (max 30C / 90F)

• Non-chlorine bleach as needed

• Tumble dry low

• Iron, steam, or dry medium heat

• Do not dry clean

• Wash, wear, release. Then repeat.

 

For the deconstructors, the truth-chasers, and the ones brave enough to disappear into their own becoming.

Wear it as a reminder:

You don’t need to become someone new.

You just need to remember what’s underneath the performance.

 

Soft in form. Disruptive in message.

You are not who you think you are—and that’s the whole point.

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