The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.
The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.

The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.

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A sentence that feels like a doorway—one you don’t walk through so much as dissolve into.

“The you that you are looking for is in the absence of the you that you think you are.”

This shirt speaks to the moment you realize the version of yourself you’ve been chasing isn’t found by adding more—only by releasing what was never truly you. It’s an invitation to loosen your grip on the performed self, the inherited self, the defended self… so the real one can finally breathe.

Wear it when you’re shedding layers.

Wear it when you’re stepping into something deeper.

Wear it because the truest version of you emerges in the space where old identities fall away.

Let go a little.

 

See who appears.

Product features

- Lightweight 4.2 oz fabric for breathable all-day wear
- Airlume combed and ring-spun cotton (fiber content varies by color)
- Ribbed knit collar and shoulder tape for long-lasting shape
- Retail fit with side seams and tear-away label for clean finish
- DTF inner neck labels and made in Nicaragua

  XS S M L XL 2XL
Width, in 16.50 17.99 20.00 21.97 23.98 25.98
Length, in 26.97 27.99 28.98 30.00 30.98 32.01
Sleeve length, in 25.00 26.93 27.17 27.56 27.95 28.35
Size tolerance, in 1.00 1.00 1.00 1.00 1.00 1.00

 Care instructions
- Machine wash: warm (max 40C or 105F)
- Tumble dry: low heat
- Iron, steam, or dry: medium heat
- Non-chlorine: bleach as needed
- Do not dryclean

 
 
 
 
 
 

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